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so today, mimi tells me that she would like to have a baby shower. i told her you only have a baby shower if you're going to have a baby. she says to me thoughtfully, "sure, i would like to have a child. maybe four. i'll keep one and i'll give three to daddy. i'll just photocopy them for him."

then she told me, "mom when i grow up i want to be just like you and take care of my kids. i know it's a lot of hard work, but it can be fun, too. when i'm a mom, i'm going to be just like you. you know, i'll do all that stuff... yell at my kids...make them good food to eat...give them baths...teach them stuff...put their clothes on, and all that stuff."

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