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while cleaning out my desk, i came across an envelope with mimi's writing all over it. it said: to megan from: mimi Mimi Im 5 in Mach (march). i recognized it as one of the 'invitations' that mimi said she was making to prepare for her 5th birthday. she wanted to write her own birthday invitations so she found some random cards in the house and repurposed them for her party. i never sent out these cards that she made, and instead sent out some Fancy Nancy cards since that was the party theme. i couldnt bring myself to throw out the cards that mimi had made so i had tucked them away and forgot about them until now. i didnt really see what she had put inside the envelopes because she told me it was for her friends and not me. i had respected her wishes and left them sealed. now i chanced upon them and decided to throw them out, but before i did, i was curious to see what was inside, so i opened the sealed envelope and when i saw the card, i couldnt help but laugh.

the outside had a bunch of flowers and the inside she drew a big birthday cake with 5 candles and carefully traced around the words in the card...not sure if you can read it, but it says: Thinking of you today with deep and sincere sympathy.

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